I have to realize now.I have to,Yes!
中午看完校内，我才感受到自己的愚蠢。很多事情，我总是在还没有开始的时候就开始否定自己的能力，所以我从来没有投入过去做一件事情，对于别人的成功我只有祝福，同时谴责着自己的罪行。
当我的父母没有对我施加很多压力的时候，我就放任自由，认为生活可以这么一直的晃下去而不用去想象关于责任的事情，现在我感受到我错的多么严重，现在看来，我一直在糊弄着玩弄着生活，从来没有真正投入过的去对待它。
我不知道这是没有信心的表现还是本性如此，但是当我自我检讨的时候，我觉得我的本性并不如此，争强好胜并不是我追求的生活，那就选择平淡，可是当平淡时看到精彩又会羡慕也会叹息，对于我的生命之花到底要怎样盛放，我至今还没有找到一条正确的道路。
Bonnie告诉我她考上了苏大的研究生，当我看着她的日志，我感受到她的努力与坚毅，这一直都是我缺乏的东西。有些东西，当我去想象的时候就被我否定了，这是否太过于武断我不知道（答案是肯定的），但是我想这个社会上还是有很多人会和我有同样的思想问题。
在工作中我感受到拘泥于细节不能完成大事，当抽身出来宏观一看的时候可以察觉到很多问题，细节可以慢慢完善，但如果没有宏观的走向的话，人就会一直陷在自己的迷宫中不能自拔而感到痛苦不已。
先祝Bonnie成功，再来检讨我自己，反省！
Friday, March 13, 2009
i like this
Now I think I know
What you tried to say to me
How you suffered for your sanity
How you tried to set them free
They will not listen
They're not listening still
Perhaps, they never will
——Vincent，Don Mclean
What you tried to say to me
How you suffered for your sanity
How you tried to set them free
They will not listen
They're not listening still
Perhaps, they never will
——Vincent，Don Mclean
i think this pretty much sum up the current situation i am surfing with.
Good luck.
Monday, March 9, 2009
09/03/2009
周末听到姐姐有了宝宝的消息，很开心，给她拨了N个电话才接了起来，给我的理由是辐射大，我就无语了，这才1个月，这么讲究，我们公司的那些孕妇，天天还要对着电脑上班的，那难道不过了？她就听了我的话，我说不要太紧张了，要顺其自然，最重要是心情要靓，宝宝才会健康。
我的心情今天跌到了史上最低谷，我从来都没有过这么压抑的感受，在TA和我说完话后，我的感觉更为明显，我是来工作的，不是来看你脸色的，也不是来给你训斥的，为什么老是在心血来潮之时就摆出一副脸来给别人看，我真TMD不想干了。
今天想辞职的心比以往任何时候都要强烈，我知道现在是上班时间，整个周末因为懒惰我都无法在blog上动弹一个指头，现在我就有千言万语，我的生活被工作的情绪带领到最顶端，我真不知道这是个愉快的生命开始还是暗无天日的地窖。
我很无语，我不知道他们是怎么坚持过来的，或许，真的，我就不属于这里。
thatsonofabitch！
一个月的雨，也是没完没了，我真不知道再说什么了，感觉什么都很压抑！
我让姐姐心情要靓起来，自己却无法自我安慰；我妈妈呢，昨天好心的和她发短信，她仍然是一副...的态度，和姐姐说起这个事情的时候也说我妈现在处于非常更年期，不能触动。
我也真不想去触动她了，我自己都搞不定自己了，我真的不想再去烦别人的所谓的事了。
我的心情今天跌到了史上最低谷，我从来都没有过这么压抑的感受，在TA和我说完话后，我的感觉更为明显，我是来工作的，不是来看你脸色的，也不是来给你训斥的，为什么老是在心血来潮之时就摆出一副脸来给别人看，我真TMD不想干了。
今天想辞职的心比以往任何时候都要强烈，我知道现在是上班时间，整个周末因为懒惰我都无法在blog上动弹一个指头，现在我就有千言万语，我的生活被工作的情绪带领到最顶端，我真不知道这是个愉快的生命开始还是暗无天日的地窖。
我很无语，我不知道他们是怎么坚持过来的，或许，真的，我就不属于这里。
thatsonofabitch！
一个月的雨，也是没完没了，我真不知道再说什么了，感觉什么都很压抑！
我让姐姐心情要靓起来，自己却无法自我安慰；我妈妈呢，昨天好心的和她发短信，她仍然是一副...的态度，和姐姐说起这个事情的时候也说我妈现在处于非常更年期，不能触动。
我也真不想去触动她了，我自己都搞不定自己了，我真的不想再去烦别人的所谓的事了。
Friday, March 6, 2009
so sleepppyy
All i wanna do is:going back home crawling in my bed and sleep like there's no tomorrow.
Oh one piece of good news is it's finally Friday !
OMG i've been waiting for a whole week and it's finally here:D
大家说在说着周末去打球的事，我呢，只想这么沉沉的睡去，根据我手机上的天气通来看，周末的气温只有7度了，还要下雨，我还能有什么别的追求，我唯一的追求就是能窝在被子里睡觉了，我太现实了，我太容易满足了，我太佩服我自己了...我无语了。
周末吃饭是个问题，所以，我们上周痛苦的起床去超市拖了2个礼拜的食物，wakaka！
恩想想也不错，我们又买了一堆薯片，周末家庭影院可以有东西吃了，awww，哈哈；
又困又累，今早起床睁眼突然发现两眼冒金星，全世界都在晃...我问了TJ小朋友几个问题，
1、最喜欢的季节？TJ：夏天；gwen：不热的夏天
2、起床第一件事？TJ：睁眼（TJ同志说我永远不用做此步骤，因为我睡觉就是在睁眼状态，我是神啊哈哈哈）；gwen：亲BB；
3、睡觉前第一件事？TJ：闭眼；gwen：亲BB晚安
....以上问题摘录校内一群人的点名游戏。
说到这个我又郁闷了，想想我真是土人。真的，我也是女人啊，我怎么没人家那么所谓的爱吃巧克力？是不是高尚点的女性都会说自己爱吃巧克力？那反过来说我是不是就是土人了；
还有那个大家有那么多外号么，我周围的人名字都正常啊，都是正常的啊，没那么多外号啊，那是我落伍了没起个外号还是那什么一个个都装B；
Thursday, March 5, 2009
太阳去哪里了
我现在唯一想问的一个问题就是：太阳去哪里了；
可以下雨，可以阴天，但也没这么下的吧，也没这么阴下去的吧。
床铺生霉了，衣服堆成山了，太阳还不出来，到底想怎么样，虽说人不能因为天气如此性情，但是我还真被它影响了不少，如果...是晴天，我可能就一股脑的去报名BEC高级了；如果...是晴天，我可能就出门逛逛街去了；如果是晴天，我可能就会去洗衣服了.....
世界上没有如果啊。
办公室的故事真是说不完，怎么说呢，也没法说，听的说的烦的我都腻了，那就这样吧，你也拯救不了，级别就是这样的啦，好好干好自己的事情吧，就成长了。
我真的成长了，对于这一点，我还是很欣慰的。
但我妈真的没有给我一刻安宁，我不知道她到底想要什么，我快被她烦死了。我一个人在外面我容易么。哎~不说她了，伤神！
我想告诉她，即使没有太阳，你心里有太阳生活就会很美好，干什么每天想些奇奇怪怪的东西，自我折磨啊，不但折磨了你自己，也折磨了我和TJ，OKay ！
可以下雨，可以阴天，但也没这么下的吧，也没这么阴下去的吧。
床铺生霉了，衣服堆成山了，太阳还不出来，到底想怎么样，虽说人不能因为天气如此性情，但是我还真被它影响了不少，如果...是晴天，我可能就一股脑的去报名BEC高级了；如果...是晴天，我可能就出门逛逛街去了；如果是晴天，我可能就会去洗衣服了.....
世界上没有如果啊。
办公室的故事真是说不完，怎么说呢，也没法说，听的说的烦的我都腻了，那就这样吧，你也拯救不了，级别就是这样的啦，好好干好自己的事情吧，就成长了。
我真的成长了，对于这一点，我还是很欣慰的。
但我妈真的没有给我一刻安宁，我不知道她到底想要什么，我快被她烦死了。我一个人在外面我容易么。哎~不说她了，伤神！
我想告诉她，即使没有太阳，你心里有太阳生活就会很美好，干什么每天想些奇奇怪怪的东西，自我折磨啊，不但折磨了你自己，也折磨了我和TJ，OKay ！
Wednesday, March 4, 2009
i was actually so drunk last night
Yes,i was actually drunk last night but people wouldn't ever notice that cause I pretended pretty well and kept saying i'm just fine.
So does this real?
I mean when you ask your friend like "how are you,how's everything going for you?"
and they answered like "i'm fine."
have you ever wondered "really ?tell me the truth !"
I already felt the dizzyness in my head and can't make solid feet on the ground,people were getting nasty and talktive. when I took the cab back home it's already like 11pm.
I feel the stinky smell all over myself so does TJ,but i can't persuade myself to get a shower cause it's getting really late and the rain just won't quit ! WHAT THE HELL!WHERE THE FUCK DOES THE SUN HIDE ?
Then went this: i talked to Ys,she told me something i can't remember all but this going-to-Austrulia idea.I have no clue how's all these happening but i want her to stay in China,like we can hang out sometimes later,I miss that city i've been staying for 4 years and there has someone I care about. Can't you tell?!
So does this real?
I mean when you ask your friend like "how are you,how's everything going for you?"
and they answered like "i'm fine."
have you ever wondered "really ?tell me the truth !"
I already felt the dizzyness in my head and can't make solid feet on the ground,people were getting nasty and talktive. when I took the cab back home it's already like 11pm.
I feel the stinky smell all over myself so does TJ,but i can't persuade myself to get a shower cause it's getting really late and the rain just won't quit ! WHAT THE HELL!WHERE THE FUCK DOES THE SUN HIDE ?
Then went this: i talked to Ys,she told me something i can't remember all but this going-to-Austrulia idea.I have no clue how's all these happening but i want her to stay in China,like we can hang out sometimes later,I miss that city i've been staying for 4 years and there has someone I care about. Can't you tell?!
I hope your happy;
and I hope you know that I love you.
Sunday, March 1, 2009
what a weekend
不知道为什么好像全中国都一直处在阴雨连绵的状态，被人称作“史上超长烂冬”，本来暖和的FZ也变得让人讨厌，不知道太阳干什么去了，你到底去哪了呢，每天不出来上班，要扣考核！（ok，上班综合症，原谅一下）
整个周末就一直窝在床上没下来，正如现在的我，还是窝在床上没下来，可是呢，现在已经14：23分了，可是呢，我刚从昨晚的睡梦中醒来1个小时，而且呢，我还没进食...多么腐败的日子，不过也开心自得，整个人油油的，脏脏的，床铺也被踢的乱七八糟的（哈哈，你能想象那个样子吧，哦~）一直想洗澡，但是总是被懒惰打败，一直想敷个面膜，也被疲劳占领精神领域，但是今天晚上，是一定要把澡给洗了，否则我就臭了，虽然我才洗了不到两天。但是这种天气啊，您想想...每次洗澡，TJ都惨不忍睹的听到我在浴室里鬼叫，为什么呢，还不是身上太凉，水太热，一下无法适应就变成了厉鬼的惨叫...
当我不需要的上班的时候，其实，哈哈，我还挺喜欢这样的天，雨没有完全的下下来，只是一直处于蒸汽状态，拉上窗帘，躺在被窝，上着网，看着电影，如果，如果，如果，能有人做饭或送饭来多好，我整一成了现代版慈禧太后了（不好意思，因为我会用电脑，她不会）
可是我怎么会这么堕落的，昨天刚说好要努力，现在变得这般腐败，我只能自我挣扎着！
谁来解救我！
整个周末就一直窝在床上没下来，正如现在的我，还是窝在床上没下来，可是呢，现在已经14：23分了，可是呢，我刚从昨晚的睡梦中醒来1个小时，而且呢，我还没进食...多么腐败的日子，不过也开心自得，整个人油油的，脏脏的，床铺也被踢的乱七八糟的（哈哈，你能想象那个样子吧，哦~）一直想洗澡，但是总是被懒惰打败，一直想敷个面膜，也被疲劳占领精神领域，但是今天晚上，是一定要把澡给洗了，否则我就臭了，虽然我才洗了不到两天。但是这种天气啊，您想想...每次洗澡，TJ都惨不忍睹的听到我在浴室里鬼叫，为什么呢，还不是身上太凉，水太热，一下无法适应就变成了厉鬼的惨叫...
当我不需要的上班的时候，其实，哈哈，我还挺喜欢这样的天，雨没有完全的下下来，只是一直处于蒸汽状态，拉上窗帘，躺在被窝，上着网，看着电影，如果，如果，如果，能有人做饭或送饭来多好，我整一成了现代版慈禧太后了（不好意思，因为我会用电脑，她不会）
可是我怎么会这么堕落的，昨天刚说好要努力，现在变得这般腐败，我只能自我挣扎着！
谁来解救我！
Friday, February 27, 2009
good memories
I've been reminsicing those you called good and bad times,stronger and stronger...
like addictive, a dope,you've been thinking about it every single moment,and this just reminds me some friends out there whom i've missed so much.
大一，freshman，第一次过年寒假回家，中午去买火车票的时刻在食堂那献了第一次血，一个小星星伤口一个星期才好，得到这个笔记本，从此就变成我的日记。
我想我会一直保留它，不管是正确还是错误的事情，都不会撕掉。
阴雨天，一直一直在，雨虽然没有下下来，却总是灰蒙蒙的天，有雾般的雨星，就像凉凉的蒸汽一样。我煮了小米加燕麦粥，大家都说小米很难吃，有一股奇怪的味道，我知道那是味道，碍于某种礼教文化，我就不说明了，如果想知道就去买下小米，黄色的那种，洗洗的时候就知道是什么味道了，如果你没有boyfriend或者husband，哦，那可能你不会知道结果。
我很想Ys<3，不知道为什么，我觉得好像和谁都没有那么多话讲，除了她，虽然我们一直在相互嘲讽的语气，但都熟透了彼此，就是那个样子，我们都知道自己在说什么，对吧.
很想阿麦麦<3，不知道泰达还有没有下雪，你是不是还是黄脸婆呢哈哈哈，千万不要砸我。现在看来，真是物以类聚，人以群分，一点都没错，我们几个聚在一起就会相安无事，看电视上杂志上教怎么化妆，估计我们都不会学会也不会去败那个钱了，所以我至今还不会化妆，我知道她们也不会。
如果和一群整天花枝招展的女人在一起，打打扮的人，我....可能接受不了。
还有我家TJ，我喜欢他的每个表情和动作，嘻嘻嘻，超级可爱，不管你觉得怎么样了，总之在我心里就是：）<33333333
终于周末了，我本来在午休，可是不得不在这里写上一笔。
最近，我很爱听CIRCUS，怎么会这样@@
Tuesday, February 24, 2009
office ladies
应广大同志们要求及鄙视，OK多写点中文。
致：还未参加工作，仍在校园内做安逸学生；待业期的众多朋友。
办公室白领是什么意思？我不知道，好像也没什么具体的概念，但快递员会说我们是办公室的白领，坐在办公室里电脑前，安逸的，喝杯茶，吃个零食，即时在线聊天工具使用下...比他们风里来雨里去好多了。我想想：偷笑。
我知道了为什么毕业时很多人纯真的人格，美丽的面容会在工作后半年一年...被彻底改变，变得油条，变得冷血，变得事不关已，高高挂起，变得爱钻空，变得爱推卸责任，变得爱嚼舌根，变得惨不忍睹，变得势力，变得可怕，变得可怜，变得可悲...当然，这只是一部分会这样，还有好的存在着，比如我，我还清醒着，也时刻提醒着自己。
我不明白为什么要让人变得如此白纸黑字的证据放在眼前才会淹没你的无理，难道口头诚信不能作为诚信的证据了吗，难道一定要让你很难堪的时候你才会低下头却始终不承认错误吗，难道在别人背后不停的说三道四能显示你人缘极好吗...貌似有天大的秘密，其实敞开天窗说亮话不会效果更明显吗？
人人都说他是疯子，东风西吹，日夜颠倒完全不知人间白黑。我不会因为你卑微的所谓自尊来收拾别人的残局，推卸责任的人请出来，其实你们有什么能耐呢，就是在该表现的时候绝对绝对不忘秀一把，好吧，这是我的弱点，无法匹敌，也做不到这么虚伪。
办公室友情是什么呢，很难讲，不知道要修多久的缘才能遇见那么一个；
装痴卖傻的你几岁了，你就是装B；
办公室女郎何时才能团结起来，很难讲，基本上在我身在之时不会看到了。
致：还未参加工作，仍在校园内做安逸学生；待业期的众多朋友。
办公室白领是什么意思？我不知道，好像也没什么具体的概念，但快递员会说我们是办公室的白领，坐在办公室里电脑前，安逸的，喝杯茶，吃个零食，即时在线聊天工具使用下...比他们风里来雨里去好多了。我想想：偷笑。
我知道了为什么毕业时很多人纯真的人格，美丽的面容会在工作后半年一年...被彻底改变，变得油条，变得冷血，变得事不关已，高高挂起，变得爱钻空，变得爱推卸责任，变得爱嚼舌根，变得惨不忍睹，变得势力，变得可怕，变得可怜，变得可悲...当然，这只是一部分会这样，还有好的存在着，比如我，我还清醒着，也时刻提醒着自己。
我不明白为什么要让人变得如此白纸黑字的证据放在眼前才会淹没你的无理，难道口头诚信不能作为诚信的证据了吗，难道一定要让你很难堪的时候你才会低下头却始终不承认错误吗，难道在别人背后不停的说三道四能显示你人缘极好吗...貌似有天大的秘密，其实敞开天窗说亮话不会效果更明显吗？
人人都说他是疯子，东风西吹，日夜颠倒完全不知人间白黑。我不会因为你卑微的所谓自尊来收拾别人的残局，推卸责任的人请出来，其实你们有什么能耐呢，就是在该表现的时候绝对绝对不忘秀一把，好吧，这是我的弱点，无法匹敌，也做不到这么虚伪。
办公室友情是什么呢，很难讲，不知道要修多久的缘才能遇见那么一个；
装痴卖傻的你几岁了，你就是装B；
办公室女郎何时才能团结起来，很难讲，基本上在我身在之时不会看到了。
Monday, February 23, 2009
this relief,this made my day
I love you sweetie,soooo much!!!
♥
RANT
I don't get why some people or should I just pull out the word"bastard"are so stupid;
I found it's completely useless to argue with someone,it's a fucking waste of time and what's worse you know,that stupid asshole would drive you crazy!
And,your in a lower level than him in this muthafn company,what else you gotta say huh,he's never wrong,NEVER!So when you thought you could deal with him with some senseable reasons or just be rational with him, he doesn't buy it,and he won't buy it,he's just fucking stupid self-righteous dumb ass!That saying is right,"birds of a feather flock together",to whom that follow his lead,is also stupid in my eyes.
It's easy to find out,everyone dislike him but we just don't say it,but are you taking it as we're afraid of you?Or are you taking it as your the smartest muthafucker in this world?So nobody can compete with you?
But but but oh sir,why your still under controlled after these whoaa like 10 years of career fighting?Are you blind or retarded that your just an employeeeeeee,like everyone else here.
I don't fight with this dumbass no more,like I said it's totally useless and a waste of time,you'll just gonna see.
I feel much better now,cause it's ME who got the rights,and ohhh one more thing:to whom that called me the other day asking if i got scared,FUCK OFF lady!
Apparently,you don't know my temper at allll.It's YOU who got fucking scared,afraid of losing your job or bonus babe?
I don't wanna know cause I don't give a shit!
I found it's completely useless to argue with someone,it's a fucking waste of time and what's worse you know,that stupid asshole would drive you crazy!
And,your in a lower level than him in this muthafn company,what else you gotta say huh,he's never wrong,NEVER!So when you thought you could deal with him with some senseable reasons or just be rational with him, he doesn't buy it,and he won't buy it,he's just fucking stupid self-righteous dumb ass!That saying is right,"birds of a feather flock together",to whom that follow his lead,is also stupid in my eyes.
It's easy to find out,everyone dislike him but we just don't say it,but are you taking it as we're afraid of you?Or are you taking it as your the smartest muthafucker in this world?So nobody can compete with you?
But but but oh sir,why your still under controlled after these whoaa like 10 years of career fighting?Are you blind or retarded that your just an employeeeeeee,like everyone else here.
I don't fight with this dumbass no more,like I said it's totally useless and a waste of time,you'll just gonna see.
I feel much better now,cause it's ME who got the rights,and ohhh one more thing:to whom that called me the other day asking if i got scared,FUCK OFF lady!
Apparently,you don't know my temper at allll.It's YOU who got fucking scared,afraid of losing your job or bonus babe?
I don't wanna know cause I don't give a shit!
Friday, February 20, 2009
WHY
I have NO idea why i'm getting so tense whenever i'm dialing a call to my so-called co-workers whom i've never met or been contact with.
I just don't know how to start a conversation,which way is decent,how to tell them who am i,what's my name,what i am trying to say to them...
Is that a shyness or inferiority(is that the right word -.-) a sense of inferiority.
I don't know!The only thing i know is i have to overcome this psychology down in my head,it's like a psywar,can you get me?
However,i'm finally seeing the sun after this so long week!It looks so beautiful outside,I think everything will just get fine soon.
Wish me luck!
I just don't know how to start a conversation,which way is decent,how to tell them who am i,what's my name,what i am trying to say to them...
Is that a shyness or inferiority(is that the right word -.-) a sense of inferiority.
I don't know!The only thing i know is i have to overcome this psychology down in my head,it's like a psywar,can you get me?
However,i'm finally seeing the sun after this so long week!It looks so beautiful outside,I think everything will just get fine soon.
Wish me luck!
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
I have to make a note of this
So i read this article and it really helped.i found it's very useful and reasonable so i think i should share with all of you (:
Yes it's a tough economic time and all workers share the same common of getting fired,and today we're not only scared of getting fired but also afraid of getting laid off from jobs.
Those are 10 ways we'd damage our career,you should we should all avoid these:
1.Not keeping track of your accomplishment.
i have to say this is really important to keep notes of what you've done ,what you've got in the process of your work career,not to say someday your asking for a salary increase but also it helps when annual performance coming,and that time it's the only time your boss would know what you have achieved in this year.AND who knows whens the next time you're applying for another job,so what content you've got for your resume ,got it:)
2.Not keeping your skill set current.
You should always keep up the date,keep your skill set current to show that make your boss's money worthy on you espesically when he's going to reduce the expense.It's a ever-changing world remember that.
3.Not delivering results.
If you cost money instead of making money your guaranteed to fall in the wayside.The common sense would tell us that the bussiness is about accountbility.
4.Efficient does not equal effective.
Communicating with people by your emails,text messages,your blackberry chats won't help you establish the relationship with people.TALK to them is the fastest most effective way.
5.Thinking your irreplaceable.
There's no room for the "divas" in the workplace.There're millions of people looking for job right now and definitely more than a few of could do your job,replace your position and probably they'd do better than you.if you think your the only one who can do the job "right",your surely start to fall.
6.Knowing all the answers.
To stay afloat with today's job market,stay current and learn to ask questions and listen to some new ideas.
7.Surrounding yourself with "brownnosers" .
i am really sick of those bragging pig ass and i think your sharing the same opinion with me.
8.Take all the credits.
Just give credit where it due.Most managers are smart enough to recognize it when you inappropriately take full credit for positive outcomes despite the help or input by the others.
9.Not tooting your own horn.
Your boss doesn't have time to keep a tab on each of their empolyees,so how would your boss know the value of you to this company unless you tell him?
it's hard for some of those who're really shy (like me?! lol),but it really worth a try.
10.Losing your perpective.
It's awful to lose your perpective.Acknowledging that you're not perfect would earn you respect in the office,but give out an idea to show your way,people need to seek advice and perspectives.
Yes it's a tough economic time and all workers share the same common of getting fired,and today we're not only scared of getting fired but also afraid of getting laid off from jobs.
Those are 10 ways we'd damage our career,you should we should all avoid these:
1.Not keeping track of your accomplishment.
i have to say this is really important to keep notes of what you've done ,what you've got in the process of your work career,not to say someday your asking for a salary increase but also it helps when annual performance coming,and that time it's the only time your boss would know what you have achieved in this year.AND who knows whens the next time you're applying for another job,so what content you've got for your resume ,got it:)
2.Not keeping your skill set current.
You should always keep up the date,keep your skill set current to show that make your boss's money worthy on you espesically when he's going to reduce the expense.It's a ever-changing world remember that.
3.Not delivering results.
If you cost money instead of making money your guaranteed to fall in the wayside.The common sense would tell us that the bussiness is about accountbility.
4.Efficient does not equal effective.
Communicating with people by your emails,text messages,your blackberry chats won't help you establish the relationship with people.TALK to them is the fastest most effective way.
5.Thinking your irreplaceable.
There's no room for the "divas" in the workplace.There're millions of people looking for job right now and definitely more than a few of could do your job,replace your position and probably they'd do better than you.if you think your the only one who can do the job "right",your surely start to fall.
6.Knowing all the answers.
To stay afloat with today's job market,stay current and learn to ask questions and listen to some new ideas.
7.Surrounding yourself with "brownnosers" .
i am really sick of those bragging pig ass and i think your sharing the same opinion with me.
8.Take all the credits.
Just give credit where it due.Most managers are smart enough to recognize it when you inappropriately take full credit for positive outcomes despite the help or input by the others.
9.Not tooting your own horn.
Your boss doesn't have time to keep a tab on each of their empolyees,so how would your boss know the value of you to this company unless you tell him?
it's hard for some of those who're really shy (like me?! lol),but it really worth a try.
10.Losing your perpective.
It's awful to lose your perpective.Acknowledging that you're not perfect would earn you respect in the office,but give out an idea to show your way,people need to seek advice and perspectives.
Monday, February 16, 2009
a MONDAY
It's a Monday again and i have to say that i have zillions of different moods for this very first day of that start-over-again work day.
I always try to think optimistic while i'm getting ready for work on Monday or the whole weekday would turn out to be so crappy.And it really works for me!
it's pretty smoggy and raining for a little bit,like it's the best time to curl in your bed and just chillin' on the internet,turn off the lights,close your windows,draw off your curtains,what a wonderful day and at the same time it's the worst.Think further it'll just ruin your fight spirit,ruin your life.
Bingo!my boss wanted me to redone the report form for her due to her inconsistent idea.
So i have my very first deadline for Monday:it's 530pm.
i really hate doing endless report form,and excel just drives me crazy!
but deal with it,this is life,this is work,this is it!
I always try to think optimistic while i'm getting ready for work on Monday or the whole weekday would turn out to be so crappy.And it really works for me!
it's pretty smoggy and raining for a little bit,like it's the best time to curl in your bed and just chillin' on the internet,turn off the lights,close your windows,draw off your curtains,what a wonderful day and at the same time it's the worst.Think further it'll just ruin your fight spirit,ruin your life.
Bingo!my boss wanted me to redone the report form for her due to her inconsistent idea.
So i have my very first deadline for Monday:it's 530pm.
i really hate doing endless report form,and excel just drives me crazy!
but deal with it,this is life,this is work,this is it!
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